Somethings That I Just Don't Get

One of the things that i simply don't get is, what is it with people changing their attitude towards family, friends.. once they started seeing other people. I am NOT implying that ALL people do that, but most of the people i know, they do.

Like yesterday i called my friend Claire to ask her if she already contacted our college friends who invited us last nite for a get together (i wasn't able to go, so i asked her) and she told me that she didn't contacted them (which i did text her last sunday nite to let her know about this), and that she is not going (obviously!). i don't know what to say... like, u know she's always been like this. And as a friend, of course i do accept this as one of her qualities. But i think i deserve some respect too, don't you think? like, if someone called you and i think it's just normal that you call them back right? or maybe... when someone text you, i think that person deserve to be replied. Don't you think so? Well, I DO THINK SO! and i think it's getting worse since she started having a boyfriend. it does makes me mad sometimes, but.. i just couldn't go any farther than that. Before we used to be close, like, if we don't see each other in two weeks, we have to go out and hang out. We just have to! Even just go out for a coffee, for a lunch at McDonald's, or maybe to bookstore. It doesn't matter. Just the thought of us seeing each other is enough. But since she started going out with this guy, seems like her world just goes around him. Hey, don't get me wrong, coz i definitely like this guy she's seeing, but i think it's her. She don't know how to control and balance her time with her friends. I do feel sad, even hurt. And i miss her truly... but seems like the feelings are not mutual :(